Pregnancy Peeves

I today came across a pregnant woman in second life. Not that its my first time but still it striked me .Raising a child is really one of the biggest responsibilities a person can take on themselves. So why get pregnant in Second life

 Honest Answer : I don't know. My logical answer : Practice/ fun/ realism.

I shall boldly accept inworld  and here too that I hate when the scripts or hud whatever that is..gives a message about how the baby is feeling. I have only tried to "click" on 1 baby and believe me I did not like it. Excuse me for my bluntness but yes its still an NPC - Non Player Character.. IF I was to show my emotions for a randomly created baby which does not even have AI .. I would  rather choose to fall in love with the gorgeous women of Prince of Persia games or Lara Croft or my character's gf in sims.

But there is another side to this family formations in second life.There are a lot of adoption agencies in Second life. You may call me double standard if someone wants to call someone mom or dad I guess its fine.After all you are not bumping your head to a robot or click a prim to say "Hello my dear son, How are you today ? Need some money ?" And then pay you 1000L$.. If it was that..I would get atleast 5 dads in Second life.

Coming back to the topic I have met quite a few people who were quite unfortunate to not have a family or imperfect family in real life.They can really take good advantage of the adoption centers in second life.And give you the peace of having a somewhat distant family if not real.

I have been asked quite a few times if I want to have a son or daughter.. And my answer always has been.. Do me a favor.. find yourself a rich hot submissive mother..then you will have me as your dad.

So whats my verdict ?

I may be am too young (puppy eyes ) to understand the concept of getting pregnant virtually. Anyways I don't like virtual pregnancy.  Some people don't like homosexuals.. correct them first then me :)

Skeletons in the Closet

Today there was not much rush at bloodlines. So I decided to go to profiles of all the people who I don't get along with (yes I am not a saint and I am trying to be a better person , even jesus had enemies.. )

I noticed that all of their profiles had a string of words which are totally different from the type of person they are.I know I know.. I am judging them I am sure they are good persons, probably better than I am.. But coming about this from the type of relationships I had with them.

All of their profiles had the following things said about them :

No Drama/ Drama free

If you wanna know something just ask..

and many more..

Well after that I have figured out something... 

These are from solely my point of view.. Copyrights owned ! 

I don't do drama - I love it !!!! Bring it to me !! Else I will start it ...

If you wanna know something just ask - No I am not interested in you ..

Taken - But not partnered ? OMG wtf ...can't spend 25 L$ to officiate your relationship or you know it deep down that its not gonna work... ?

There is a real person....avatar - No..not really..you are just another person who wants to play mind games and expect people to be calm. You are so attention seeking you don't care about anyone else's emotion.

If you can't handle me at my worst... - I can handle anyone at their worst but you are not marilyn monroe..get over it ! 

If you mess with my close people I will hunt you down - Sure..want me to pay the bill for your travel to my country ? 

Last but not the least -

I am tired of stalkers - It means you have lingering emotional resentment about your past relationships. Unless you throw it away there is no chance you can move into a new relationship.

SL is SL, Real is Real - No Never. As Mr Trip Tremmor Says : RL > SL . You are not in the matrix or in the Cyberspace.Second life is all about projecting your real life into it. When you go to a party don't you dress up a bit more ? Don't you behave a bit differently ? It also makes me feel that you are quite unlikely to know the idiosyncrasy I use as a person.Therefore it will end up quite badly because textual communication tends to be quite negative without the touch of emotions.

 

 

Ever Changing Relations

 A long time ago I had read that nothing constant or permanent other than the ever changing time. There have been moments in my second life which have sucker punched me and proven it again and again.

I have seen people change in just a matter of hours. I am not a psychologist but I have a hopeless theory that any person you meet  now matter what they did to you or want to do to you is a good person at heart. All it just needs is a point of view to prove to the person that you mean no harm.

Everyone in second life has been cheated on and hurt atleast once.

Being an ardent believer of conspiracy theories I am quite confident about the changes that we might face post 21 dec 2012 as predicted by nostradomus, iching, merlin and of course the mayans and the planet nibiru theory floating around I decided that there is no harm in trying to leave a good impression.

And to my good luck I have changed what a few people in second life think about me,in a good way at least as far as I would like to believe.

I at this point of my second life am happy to state that I am not angry or hold any grudges against any person I have ever met in the last 2 years. When I said this to a very close friend of mine , he said "how can you forgive your ex gf ? You were together for 3 years, you both wanted to meet this december and hopefully get engaged. Your parents even knew about it. And she just dumped you because she thought it would be better to have a real life 40 year old single father as a bf than a 25 year old boy who would fight against anything to be with her. You had even trusted her with all your passwords then how could she dump you. You had even changed your lifestyle for her. Waking up at 2 pm in the after noon and sleeping at 5 am in the morning after you would see her going to sleep on skype for last 1 year"

I smiled at him. He is my friend so he only sees my point of view.Its true I loved her more than anything even though all we did was just chat on skype. But what I did not say to him was that I was turning into a bully. I never knew I was dominative. Its not that I abused her but apart from her real friends I did not want to spend time with anyone else other than her when she was online.Not that she ever complained about it but now I feel that may be it was my fault.I guess I was just too selfish.I would ask her to dress the way I wanted my perfect dream girl would and vice versa.It was only about me and her in second life. Nothing else mattered. All our life for 2 years was around 1 cute skybox and discussing each others real life problems and asking each other point of view for the solution.

We are still friends and from what she told me was that We were having lots of arguements for past few months. But in all honesty I had never felt that she would leave me ever. We used to argue and when things got worse we would delete each other from friends list but reconcile within a day or two. It was just understood that either one of us would be apologising.. there was no question or fear that 1 is going to leave the other. Until one day she said she was ending it and for next week 1 thought it was just her pre menstrual cycle and everything would be perfectly fine.. I would login 1 day and she would say it was just a harsh joke :) .. until I saw her facebook relationship status update with the guy who had said he liked her around 8 months ago.

So coming back to my current blog. It was my fault. It was my fault that I had may be too much trust that she won't leave me.It was my fault that I never thought I would be having anything to do in second life without her around.

But things change, people don't change with time. Its just we get to know them better and they are revealed to us and that's exactly how relationships change based on a person's emotions when they can't relate to each other anymore.

That why I strongly feel that every person is capable of loving and caring for you. Being in a relationship is the easiest thing to do. But having faith that the person won't ever leave you even if you hurt the person and will still come back to you saying " Its all good" is the thing I would like to see in a relationship. 

If you really want a golden relationship be not afraid of testing it. Anyone will be good to you when you are being good to them. But the person who truly loves you will be good to you even if you upset them.Relations change people don't , they are just revealed with the passage of time.

Being a liasion

Hmm.. most of you are going to agree that bloodlines East is the coolest place to hang out, a place to check whats new in fashion , get the hottest of gossips,flaunt your style, hook up and what not ..but also most of you are going to agree that its the place where you earn the highest amount of people who "judge" based on 1 lie you can possibly imagine......lets say around a whole bunch of 300 people ? 

Well then I should welcome you to a world of a liasion on a daily basis. A liaison is not a moral police at bloodlines.But we are supposed to make sure that other normal players at bloodlines and new ones are not harrassed by the self righteous trolls and mostly that people follow the rules of the sim and keep things to a rating of Mature and also under the Community Standards of Second life.

But still then people somehow do get the idea that what they are doing is absolutely correct.

I personally do understand each and every individual has a personal life and things might not be according to what they wish for in second life.. but seriously does that give them the right to insult others or be mean to them ?

And oh yes another thing I have recently noticed in bloodlines is that being rude is the new style. 

Figure this :

Newbie : Hi I need help

Player : Help your self 

Newbie : Are you a vampire ? 

Player : Yes

Newbie : Can I be one too ? 

Player : Hi blah blah blah 

2nd Player : Hi 

3rd Player : Hey dawg, wassup bro ?

Newbie : Can you make me a vampire please ? 

Random player : Don't beg ,move on..

I was startled .. I mean where is the dignity and the good human nature of the players ? Someone seriously needs to remind them how does it feel being a newbie just fresh. 

I know it very well that there are scammers but why be rude ? 

I imed her and said which language she prefers and accordingly imed a certain clan so that they can get another another member.

But it does not end here..

Another player comments randomly .. " So, why do all the females in your clan have the same avatar shape ? Are you all out of money or copybotting ? "

Tring Tring Tring ... Drama starts 

I wondered myself why do they even have to pinch someone emotionally ? It has been a true saying always that An Empty Mind Is The Devil's Workshop. That is exactly what I am starting to see in bloodlines. 

Takling about drama last night 1 guy got banned for being rude and refusing to even say to what I wanted to say to him (not that I had any intention of banning him ) . Guess what ? His clan's queen threatens to complain against me . His friends send me hate mails and He then goes to another friend of his who is in another clan and asks her to talk to me ? 

So what was the outcome of it ?  The queen who had in the first place tried to defend him and threaten about complaining about me .how would she feel for losing all the respect she had from me just to find out that the person she was figthing for does not even value her authority as a queen and seeks help from royal of some other clan ???

So anyways that guy goes around saying that he did not know it was a liasion talking to him because I supposedly was not wearing the tag.. I mean srsly what a freaking white lie ! 

So welcome to bloodlines from the point of view of liasion. 

That's the type of drama and shit we deal with every day. But we are proud to be part of the coolest and the friendliest team in second life. 

Types of women you meet in Second life

First to know the type of the women you will need to know what a clinger is ..
There are 5 basic categories of clinger women
Category 1 : Does not exist. Its for normal females
Category 2 : The planner
This kind of women plan long ahead .
Eg : her : So what your plan for the holidays ?
        You : Nothing really just gonna go on a vacation with friends
        Her : :)) aww  I will miss you
         You : Whats your name again ?

Category 3: The persevering planner

Her : Hi, what you upto ?
You : Just at a store with my bro
Her : cool, which store ?
You : Bloodlines store :P
after 1 min
her : I don't see you in bloodlines
you : We just tped away to another place
her : well :(
her : :) tp me babe ? :)

Category 4 : The intelligent persevering planner

Her : Hi, can I have 1 L$
You : Sure.
(basically transaction of any kind of inventory item )
after 5 mins
Her : I see you ! Omg you are talking to those people.
You : Yeah..
Her : Can I join ? :)
You : How did you know i was here ?
Her : Love always finds a way
You : :))
Her : Come here and stand beside me
after 5 mins
Her : Last night I bought an awesome bed
You : great
Her : May be you should see it too.

Fair Warning .. If you are not planning to be with her stay away from women who "invite" you immediately within 72 hours of meeting .. (who am i kidding ! ) but if you go for it be prepared for the 5th and final category

There are a few signs of a stage 5 clinger applies to females you have met only in last 1 week
1st. She welcomes you back..every time you log in no matter what
2nd If you are with a friend and she sees you, she is not going to walk upto you but stand at a distance pretending to be afk
3rd Will go through your groups, join a few of them, specially to find out where you live and she can make a landmark there and someday "accidentally" end up there.
4th After you are offline, if she has access to your house, she will check all the owners of the items at your house and see if you are in the same group and then try to be "friends" with them without you knowing about it .

Now since you know the 5 categories of women *which also applies to men* in second life type for 2nd stage
Now I shall tell you the signs to seek for in a woman and avoid such women in second life at any cost
Loves to rp even when you are talking in im, mostly refers to themself as 3rd person.
Gets pregnant within 1 week of "spending" time with her or has prim babies with her and wants you to refer and treat them as real children.
Awesome bubbly does "anything" you want after you have known her for only 72 hours .
Always busy with drama in her groups and changes her boyfriends more often than she changes clothes in second life.
Always busy somewhere ..
Says that she likes you but spends around 8-9 hours with her best male friends and keeping you waiting or even if you are with them...you know you are the stranger amongst them
Has a boyfriend in real life but still wants a partner in sl. ( Not all relationships are perfect but do a lot of thinking about commiting or trying to be cuddly with such person, they just want to be with you so that they can fix their emotional problems.  Of course there are exceptions but very rare )
She won't show her face on camera but rather pass out pictures. Voice can be changed so it does not qualify for verification.
Has a quite new avatar but knows everything about you or second life.
Uses piegon english like i wub u , choo chweet . These kind of species of "girls" are found to be wearing very provocative outfits, dressed like a fashionista and have a lot of "sistas" and not to mention small short avies.
Gesturebates a lot . If she can't express her feelings without gestures how do you expect her to be romantic with you ?
Has lots of L$ but fashion sense sucks..beware that category personas are mostly above the age of 60 who still use windows XP and login to facebook to talk to their grandchildren. I have met a girl in sl , who met her real friend's grandmother on adult beach with another guy in sl at 1 am their time. (if you know what i mean )
And that will be all for now. And oh yes remember .. If a woman or man says that she likes you BUT has not met you personally or contacted you through im in last 72 hours despite being online... She is not into you. Relationships in Second life move on faster than you can finish a nine inch Subway burger !

Thanks Giving in SL

One good thing about second life is that it forces you to accept the cultures and customs of other people whom you won't ever meet in your entire life time.Not that I ever felt myself forced. I actually enjoy it but yes saying Happy Thanks Giving to the 11th person becomes tiresome. So I just popped open randomly a few boxes and said Thank you .. as expected .. all were surprised !
But today I did feel that I have accumulated around 50 + people in my contact list with whom I never talk. And now it would be too late to say hi after having them in contact list for 2 years and never even speaking a word to them... So I decided to remove them.. In less then 5 mins I got ims .. with questions as why did you remove me ? I thought we were friends .. I asked to them only 1 question..where did we meet and when had we spoken last ?
No Answer from them ..
The problem I feel is that people now can't differentiate between a friend , close friend, acquaintances and their Best Friend (s) . That also sometimes wonders me. How can you have more than 1 best friend ? I mean Besties..are diff and hanging out with close friends is diff.
Anyways enough of rambling for the moment  :)